Ok so I had to embellish a bit today with the ex-husband. Well I didn’t exactly have to but it certainly made me feel good. We were chit-chatting about life and what not today when he stopped by to pick up the jacket I borrowed from him. Small talk was going well, for once I didn’t even feel a twinge of nostalgia about him. We were discussing the fact that I’m going to be driving to Dallas in July and he asked if I would be driving alone. I told him that the guy I’m dating may be driving with me.
Fact 1: There is a guy.
Fact 2: I am dating him (nothing serious yet)
Fiction: I ain’ t asked the dude to drive with me.
I just figured that he might want to know that I am not sitting around pining for him. I have my own life and my own stuff going on. Now of course he wanted details about ole boy (b/c I think he thought I was dating my boy from school). He sounded a little jealous (that just may be my ego listening) but he wished me well.
Now speaking of the guy. That’s a whole new story. Things are going well so far. I haven’t found a reason to bench him yet. He is hella busy, but that may be just what I need. I need to learn a little patience (or so my friends have told me). I like him alot and I’d rather be patient and see where this goes than sift through the left-over men in the man bin yet again and hope for the best.
