Okay ya’ll, as my girl would say.. We’re about to cross a barrier. I am having an issue and I have to share it, no matter how much of y’alls business it really isn’t.
I am not getting any!!!
I’m trying to develop something with Coach so I have not visited any of my “tighten up” dudes in a while. Coach and I have been naked, he’s gotten good treatment from me (and he’s stingy with the reciprocity but that’s his issue) but no hot lovely relations yet. I suspect it’s because he places more of a value on the actual act than I do. I’m a pretty hot blooded woman when I want to be. But when I asked him about it, I get no real answer. I mean seriously, if you have a reason, let a sister know.
Then I made the mistake of telling him that my family wants to meet him. Not because they think we’re serious but if I come up missing, they need to be able to describe him to the sketch artist. But this freaked him out and we had to have the “relationship talk”. I mean, seriously, are all Gemini men like this? I am not measuring dude for a tux, I consider him part of my world and my family is part of my world and one day the worlds will collide.
So his solution was to try to run from me. Not that easy. I called him on his bs. He said he needed some space, I said “go for yours”. Then after thinking about it, he backpedals. I need some space became.. I’m just tired. I didn’t mean we wouldn’t talk.
One of my guy friends tells me all the time that I was a dude in a former life. I don’t think that’s it. I think I’m a Grown Arse Woman who knows her own mind (most of the time)
