Well as if i haven’t had enough going on lately….

COACH ASKED ME TO MOVE IN WITH HIM!!!!

Well temporarily at least :) I was planning to move into my own place in April so he wants me to come live with him until then. Okay this is a VERY tempting offer.

1. I love him
2. We’re thinking in future terms
3. His place is closer to work
4. The rent/bills won’t change
5. We don’t have any problem talking through issues.

Now the issues are that:
1. We’ve been dating seriously for only 6 months
2. His place is small
3. I will have to pare down my belongings
4. I don’t want to become complacent in the relationship.

The cutest thing is that he wants to ask my mother what she thinks about it. I asked her myself and she could truly care less. Matter of fact, she wasn’t surprised at all. At least I know that if it goes bad, I can go there. She respects the fact that he doesn’t want to shack up with me and that he wants this to be temporary. He really didn’t want me to just live with him but at this point he thinks it would be best for both of us. I love being there with him (as I am most nights of the week).

But I have a question: Why is it that we ask for advice and then hear what we want to hear? My girl said she wasn’t sure about this move because of what happened with her ex-fiance. I sat there thinking… yeah but he’s not like Coach and I don’t know what kind of relationship dynamics you had, etc etc.